A Poem by A Father SMARTER Brunei President's Poem during the 3rd National Conference on Autism When I held him 6 years ago, Little did I know, How much our lives would change and grow As he did so Our lives were full of nagging worries Full of little catastrophes But then somehow, Instead of caving, We pulled together, Strived to save him, Little did we know that he, Did all the saving – for him and me Though he can't speak, He makes meanings clearer, For patience, indeed he is the best teacher, He taught us what it meant to be A truly happy family Working together, Supporting each other, Bit by bit, Things got better, Sure there are ups and there are downs, There are days when we just frown, But we dug real deep and then we found, That communication without words is all around, It's in his laugh, his walk, his face, He taught it all with autistic grace, To help each other, we learnt to see, The way things were in his little feet. He showed us what it meant to cry But …